Thursday, March 31, 2011

Celebrating 60 Years!

On this day in 1951, my parents were married in Toowoomba.
Last weekend many of our family and friends gathered to celebrate sixty years of marriage.  What a wonderful testimony that crowd of people was to the many years of commitment, patience, love and perseverance Mum and Dad have put in over that time.

They are frail and weary now, but they have worked hard and can enjoy the fruits of their labour.  Being surrounded by their seven surviving children (and spouses), 21 grandchildren (and spouses) and 25 great grand children (so far) is what they love and live for. Although a few were not able to attend, most made a huge effort to attend the special celebrations. .

I thank God for you, my dear Dad and Mum, and may God bless and keep you for as long as you both shall live ♥




Pat & Theresa
31 March, 1951

Diamond Anniversary
2011


Thou shalt see thy children's children
4 generations

Biased!
Looking very handsome
My three grandsons and a "second" cousin

Friday, March 18, 2011

Bliggity, Bloggity, Brain Block!

Hello my dear blogging friends.  It seems I am not the only one who has had little time for blogging in this season.  I notice many less daily and frequent bloggers.....Mind you I am only getting brief chunks of time for visits so perhaps that is only as it seems. 

It is 9.30 on a Friday night and realistically, I am tired! 

What a wonderful, stressful yet exciting year 2011 is turning into. 

School is progressing slowly but surely.  Our busy household of seven has finally hit a bit of a stride, so while every day is hectic, and noisy, and messy, and only very loosely routine, progress is being made.  Aside from book work, reading some history and novels, regular swimming and sporting fixtures, the boys have also enjoyed a visit to the "Frog Farm" (okay endured might be more what they did there :-) and next week will be joining our local home schooling group to tour the power station.  This will be much more to their liking I am sure.

Teen aged boys are a new and fascinating learning curve for me!  Who ever guessed that young men could be as changeable and unpredictable or more so than girls were?  I am loving the loudness and the "know all" tendencies (not) but also the maturity and tenderness which shines through at unexpected moments.

Yesterday, as hubby and I had an errand,. my older daughter took "all the boys" to do our weekly shopping.  On getting home I asked how it had gone, thinking it could have been hectic.  Remember her boys are 1 and 2 and mine are 12 and 13 !
"Mum, I felt like a fraud." she said. " Two big boys pushing a trolley each with two little boys and me just waddling along popping things in the trolley.  I felt sorry for all the mothers with little ones and no one to help." Sigh...love those guys.

I do quite a lot of ferrying around of big and small people these days and we are a little sorry that we went back to a five seater car when our girls left home.  One of our current projects is to find a vehicle with a little more seating.  Amazingly, by October, we will, Lord willing, have three more grandchildren! If the maths is not adding up check out the sidebar for a clue!



Have a lovely weekend and a wonderful week ahead.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

A to Z

Melanie at Out of the Miry Clay posted this fun little meme and I thought I might participate since I am just not getting time to post these days.  I do try to read occasionally at your places.  When life settles down a little I hope to be back to my regular program!


A. Age: 48
B. Bed size: queen
C. Chore you dislike: House work!
D. Dogs: Haven't had a doggy for over a year :- ( currently dog sitting my daughter's two large canines and it looks fairly long term.
E. Essential start to your day: coffee
F. Favorite color: blues / greens
G. Gold or silver:  gold
H. Height: 5' 3" and yes I am old and can never remember what that is in Cm's
I. Instruments you play(ed):  tone deaf :- (  played the recorder, sort of, in high school. Try not to play the fool.
J. Job title: Mum
K. Kids: 5 (2 girls, 3 boys, one with the Lord) and three grandsons
L. Live:  Rockhampton,  Queensland, Australia
M. Mom’s name: Theresa (but I have only ever called her Mum)
N. Nicknames: Mum! (and Ruby of course!)
O. Overnight hospital stays:  Are you kidding?  I have three thick files at the local hospital.  Having my family alone would amount to about six months in hospital.  \
P. Pet peeves: laziness
Q. Quote from a movie:  "Go ahead, make my day!"  Not a movie I love or anything but a line that comes to mind fairly often. 
R. Righty or lefty: Right.
S. Siblings: 4 sisters, 3 brothers, I am number 6.
T. Time you wake up: 7am....not counting all the times I get up during the night.
U. Underwear: ? this is a doozy!  Melanie suggested *uniform* instead.  Denim skirts, t-shirt, flappy shoes.
V. Vegetables you don’t like: choko.
W.What makes you run late:  My husband!
X. X-rays you’ve had:  heart/ chest, teeth,
Y. Yummy food you make:  Dinner every night! Dessert...occasionally.
Z. Zoo animal favorites:  Recently visited the Melbourne Zoo and Aquarium.  Loved them all especially the penguins and the platypus.


How about you?

Friday, February 25, 2011

Holidays, Celebrations and Green Army Men

When we suffer great trials and losses it helps us to focus on what is truly important.

People always come first!
 
I am so thankful that through all the recent devastation no one that I know has died, yet I realise that many families are grieving loved ones who were taken suddenly.

My daughter lost some, but not all of her possessions during the flooding which has been hard, yet we can see what a blessing it has been that she really had very little in terms of earthly chattels.  Who would have thought we would be so thankful for that.  God has used this time to re-awaken her spiritual interest and Lord willing, she will continue to store up treasures in heaven. We all need to cling very lightly to our worldly goods.
Many family and friends, as well as strangers, have offered help and donations and my daughter marvels that she will possibly have more household things post flood than before!  She has had no success in house hunting.  The lists of families requiring housing is long and the list of homes available is short.  In fact the list is almost non existent :-(

It has in fact worked out very well for our family this way. So while we continue to search, and my daughter applies for as many places as do come up, we are all enjoying the "multi generational living" arrangement and I think it is very positive for all of us.   About the only negative ~ the little grandies have discovered the big boys collection of Green Army Men !  That is, army men, astronauts, cowboys and indians and various other interesting looking fellows!  They think them wonderful though I am planning to hide them away again very soon as they are just not suitable for the little fellows.  Besides, like small legos, they are dangerous!  Each time my tender little toes step on one it is very painful.  They have just got to go!


My boys and I enjoyed a fantastic five days with our friends at the Gold Coast.  This is the family which we pined so much for when they left town last May.  It was really special to see them all again and see the way the boys fell back into their old comradeship, so easily.  We had so much fun, including a day at Dreamworld, shared many laughs and lots of great food and coffee! It was hard to say good bye all over again.





My appointment yielded an elevation up the wait list due to the rapid decline in my left eye and I hope to be on an operating list by May, DV.

On Wednesday, before we flew home I had the great pleasure of meeting again with Ganeida. She writes about our meet up  here.  I am amazed that she was nervous on meeting again.  I think of us as old friends now and we resumed our conversation easily.  She is right about being way too short a time and I do feel a little guilty that Ganeida and girls made such a huge effort for such a short while.  Thank you :-)

So we arrived home safely and are settling back to the ho hum of every day life. 
Tonight I had the pleasure of celebrating my 27th with a group of friends going out to dinner.  My birthday fell when all the flooding was beginning and we had postponed until now.  As usual it was a delightful evening of food and friendship.  Ahum.....if you are wondering about the 27th thing?  It was the 27th anniversary of my 21st birthday!

Friday, February 18, 2011

Learning about My Master

It is many years since I embraced, intellectually, the truth that God is sovereign over all things.  He created the heavens and the earth and all creatures great and small.  He is sovereign over our lives and our choices ~ yes, even over salvation itself.  Yet knowing this,  believing it and actually living as one who knows and believes it can be different things and not so easily done.  We foolishly  give ourselves some credit for our own salvation.  We sometimes whinge and complain about the Providences which God directs our way and yet his Word also tells us that he is working all things together for the good of his people.

As a young christian, I wrestled constantly with what I thought were good outcomes for a girl like me and what God seemed to be dealing up.  His grace is sufficient and he led and guided me through every dark valley. These were hard times and it took some time to even see light at the end of some of those tunnels. 

But God.....
in his mercy and unfailing love always showed me a better solution than my paltry prayers suggested and he always found a way to polish and buff at least some imperfections in me.  It is often only looking back that  we can see the more excellent way in which God has led us.  He gives beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness;   And along the way, he strengthens and prepares us for each new trial and challenge we face on our pilgrimage to the Celestial City, when these earthly burdens will no longer beset us and we will never again wonder and question why.

Though I still struggle to face, endure and resolve the trials put before me, I can say "It is the Lord, Let him do what seemeth him good." with true conviction and assurance of his Divine supremacy.  I am able more and more to say "Thy will be done."  and accept the outcome.  I am learning to place the lives of my loved ones with greater trust and less anxiety in the hands of Him who sees and  knows all, whose end result is always the best result for his children.

In my current circumstances it is very tempting to take over the reins and make all the decisions....because I am uh um...older, wiser blah, blah, blah, yeah, right!.  But the fact is , my loved ones are adults who have to make their own decisions and who ultimately stand before God.

Still, I am praying for the discretion and dignity of a Titus 2 woman, the patience of .Job and the wisdom of Solomon.


(Carol,   good suggestion!  I already had this post set to post as I am away until 23rd so was on the wave length.).

Amidst all the frantic pace of life in our still overflowing (with children, laughter, food and mess) household, my boys and I are taking off for a week in the south.  Five days at the Gold Coast with our much missed friends (Dreamworld here we come!) and two days in Brisbane visiting in-laws and attending an eye appointment.
I will endeavour to catch you all up next week, DV.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Learning about Them

Hello to anyone who is still popping in to read at "Mumma's Place".  In the two years of my blogging career I have fretted that I may be addicted to my blog and the reading of other blogs.  Well, this last month or so has shown me that I am not .  Truly life has been so jam packed that though I may have lots of good bloggy bits to share I do not have either the time or the energy to write any posts.  And as before mentioned,  computer turns have been rationed with me often being at night.  This is not my most productive time of day........and so, very little coming to the edit stage here.

Last week I mused about what I have been gleaning about myself through our recent  flood disaster  and more personal calamities.  This week I am pondering what I am learning about others.
I have long know that teenagers often tend to be selfish.  I am gratified to see the young adults of my family have moved through this stage and are taking on the responsibilities of grown up life.  It doesn't always happen you know.  I see many examples of people into their twenties and thirties and beyond never moving beyond the totally self centred, self promoting life style.  I am encouraged that the younger members around me, though still thinking primarily of themselves can and often do eventually choose the road which is of greater benefit to the household  (in simple things like TV viewing) and to their own greater good as well (in more intimate decisions such as church attendance and moral choices).

As a parent and particularly a home schooling parent, I have long embraced the principles of discipline and routine in the ordering of life and in the raising of children.  I have not always been good at this because I am by nature fairly relaxed.  I am however, seeing it so much more clearly in my grand children, whom though I love to assist with in every way possible, I do not have the responsibility for training.  Six weeks ago they arrived here in a very stressful and dramatic situation.  They have not returned to their flooded home since...... But the constant crying and fretfulness has disappeared, the restless nights of disturbed sleep and panic at being separated from mummy are things of the past.  Patience, routine and lots of love and reassurance has seen the return of my two sweet, good natured and mischievous little men. It has been a wonderful first hand opportunity to see good parenting take effect and earn results.

I am also learning, or perhaps re-learning, that people are not always what they seem.  Sometimes you meet really genuine folk.  Brothers and sisters in the Lord who love him and love his Word, who delight to fellowship and assist the saints and the community at large.  Who never expect anything in return but make you want to act in like manner and share that wonderful bond of Christian love. 
But sadly there are those, who like the Pharisees, make long, loud prayers and declarations on pious sounding subjects but whose hearts and actions reflect a judgemental and self righteous attitude ~ ah, rather like the selfish teenagers I mentioned above.

Life throws us many opportunities and many experiences.  We live and hopefully learn, to use more wisdom and discretion as we mature.  As I observe and process all that transpires around me I realise that I have so much further to go.  "Get wisdom! Get understanding!"

Friday, February 4, 2011

Learning About Me.

On this day, 24 years ago, my first child was born.  The years pass quickly indeed. Sometimes I don't even feel as though I am 24.  How could I have children this age??!! Do I still grieve.  Yes, in the sense that one of my family are not here, but not in that heart broken way you do when you first loose a loved one. 
Recently someone commented that I seemed to think about  this   child and talk of him a lot considering his eight short days of life, such a long time ago.  Ha, only someone who has not lost a child could think that.  Losing anyone we love is painful, but in our children are tied up many hopes and dreams and a great deal of love, long before he ever leaves the womb.  Counselling books will tell you that the loss of a child, whether a still birth, neo natal death (as mine was) or later in life is one of life's greatest sorrows akin to the loss of one's spouse.
Thank you Lord for my son, through whose pregnancy, birth and death I have known such great joy and desperate sorrow but in the long run been strenghtened in so many ways. I would say, that has been one of my most valuable character changing/ developing experiences.


I am learning lots of lessons about my character at the moment.  I have always loved children and I guess I am a little dotty about my own :-)  My grandsons have always been a delight to me and now sharing such close time with two of them is flipping my heart and giving me much to giggle and gloat over!
I am learning that I am much more tolerant with these little ones that I can hand back to mother for the tough stuff!  I attribute this calmness to my heart medication which keeps my heart pounding at a a slow, even pace even when things are noisy and chaotic!  I think my partial eyesight and deafness in one ear are both helpful in glossing over behaviours which may have got my dander up in by gone days.  I hope also I have simply relaxed and can take life a little less impatiently and a lot more humorously than in days gone   by.        
I know I am learning to re-assess my goals and reasons for home schooling.  My boys have begun the year's work and I am contented with their progress.  It is a new challenge for us all to have a one and two year old in the house!  Drawing, books and puzzles only occupy them for a very short time.  So while my own fellows have all the challenges of their learning limitations, they are also developing some great diversion tactics for small people,  a lot of patience, and how to keep their precious belongings OUT OF REACH.

Dad is coping tremendously and is also finding he is more patient and less stressed about little people than he once was.

And my daughter is coping marvellously under difficult circumstances.  She is a blessing to have in the house.  (Hey, didn't I train that girl?) My second daughter is also doing a great deal to help with flood clean up and child minding which is a great help.

It is one of those hectic and potentially fraught weeks ( with the cyclone threat and unpleasant weather and other trials) which has turned out well and productive
A nice stir fry for tea and maybe a movie tonight.
Hope everyone else has had a good one as far as school goes and those still in flood areas and cyclone affected areas, I pray for your safety and a quick recovery.

Create in me a clean heart, oh Lord, and renew a right spirit with in me.

Monday, January 31, 2011

In sorrow you shall bring forth children.

 As I have aged, matured I hope, I have come to value and appreciate my mother so much more than I did as a rather self absorbed youth.
I think of Mary, our Lord's mother and those verses which say that a sword shall pierce her heart ,  The scriptures tell us that Mary pondered and kept in her heart and memory all that was told to her of her son.  How she must have sorrowed to see him suffer though she trusted in him as the God of her salvation!




Thankfully, when we hold that precious bundle in our arms we do not know what lies ahead for them or for us.  We delight in the new babe and put all our hopes, dreams and prayers into them as we seek to raise them in the fear and nurture of the Lord.
How difficult it is to see our loved ones in pain.
Again, I am loathe to pray, whatever it takes Lord, for fear of the consequence.
One thing I know, I can confidently leave my child, this one I grieve for now and all of them,
 in the Lord's hands,
But like my own mother, and Mary before me, we never stop hoping, trusting, loving.
I ponder all these things in my heart.



Mother hood
my greatest joy and my deepest sorrow.




Pslam 143

7 Lord, let my pray'r prevail,
To answer it make speed;
For, lo, my sp'rit doth fail:
Hide not thy face in need;
Lest I be like to those
That do in darkness sit,
Or him that downward goes
Into the dreadful pit.

8 Because I trust in thee,
O Lord, cause me to hear
Thy loving-kindness free,
When morning doth appear:
Cause me to know the way
Wherein my path should be;
For why, my soul on high
I do lift up to thee.

9 From my fierce enemy
In safety do me guide,
Because I flee to thee,
Lord, that thou may'st me hide.
10 My God alone art thou,
Teach me thy righteousness:
Thy Sp'rit's good, lead me to
The land of uprightness.

11 O Lord, for thy name's sake,
Be pleas'd to quicken me;
And, for thy truth, forth take
My soul from misery.
12 And of thy grace destroy
My foes, and put to shame
All who my soul annoy;
For I thy servant am.

(Scottish Metrical Version)

Monday, January 24, 2011

Make a Joyful Noise!

For those who love the Psalms of David here is a youtube link to the metrical psalms sung a capella.  If you are not familiar with Psalm singing in worship I hope you will check it out and hear some of these beautiful renditions.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Farewell, Holidays!

Is it really 8 weeks since we packed up our school things and headed to Melbourne for our "Trip of a Life Time" ? Wonderful as it was, those precious days in Victoria have faded a little with all the events of the recent weeks.  Like many Australians the floods of 2010/ 11 have consumed us for many weeks.
We are still clearing and cleaning at my daughter's house and since she and the family will not be returning there we have the ongoing pleasure of their company here!  How special it has been to have day to day contact with the little boys.  We feel much closer.  Of course accommodation is scarce so finding another, affordable place will be the next challenge for my daughter.  She has had some very stressful weeks and is looking forward to getting settled and back into routine.

The Hand of God
God's ways are not our ways....ain't that the truth!
Several weeks into the rain, and one week into the evacuation, I marvelled at God's answer to one of my long standing prayers.  I found myself saying, "Lord, thank you, but did you have to unhouse all these good people and have all this devastation to take place to see this answer to my prayer?"  I had been seeking the healing of the relationship between two people very close to me and it seemed that through this trial God had brought it to pass and further, strengthened my family and took stress from me which I experienced due to this break down between others.
Two weeks into the evacuation, I had to re-examine my thoughts.  Something was not as it seemed?
Three weeks in and a very shattering revelation rocked my world and new found security. 
"It is the Lord, let him do what seemeth him good."
Because of the delicate and personal nature of this event I am not going to blog about any details, but our trust has been abused and more so, our loved ones have been hurt and betrayed. 
Sometimes, when I have prayed and said whatever it takes for such and such to happen, I have learned the hard way that God's ways are not ours and that my wisdom is very paltry indeed. I have not imagined the way the matter would turn out, nor have I always liked or enjoyed the consequences.
Thank God that he never leaves us or forsakes us.  That his Word is always truth.  That his promises are yea and amen in Christ, that his love never fails.

Further Observations
As widely reported, I have seen some wonderful examples of "loving our neighbour" during the natural disaster we have experienced.  It is heartening to see the willingness of people to help others in their time of need.  It builds pride in our country and our state.  But what I have also observed is a great lack of acknowledgement of God.  He is not attributed with sending the rain and the flooding and consequent loss of life and property.  He is not called upon (for the most part) to help in time of need and be merciful to us, a sinful nation.


We were reminded last Lord's Day that when David went to battle Goliath, he took only his sling and his five smooth stones AND HIS TRUST IN GOD.  Having that, only one stone was necessary! This thought has occupied my mind somewhat this week. 
Next week begins a new academic year for us.  Though I feel totally disorganised for school work, and my home is unimaginably dishevelled due to the constant stream of people ( and some of them small people :-)here for that last month, yet I feel ready for the "battle", trusting the Lord who has never failed me to carry me through another year.

As I foresaw, I have not had a great deal of time for blogging and the computer in general.  I trust that others in flood affected areas are doing okay.
I hope for everyone who is started back to school a very good year and for those who have been at it for a while, keep up the good work!
Usually when Christians speak of "After the Flood" we are discussing something post Noah and family.  I think for many of us the expression will be used often when recalling these days in which we are now living!

Friday, January 14, 2011

The Great Flood of 2011

When I was a child, my Grandfather would tell us about a dim memory he had from his early childhood.  He was a four year boy in 1893 when Brisbane experienced devastating flooding.  He lived in the suburb of Rosalie which we are seeing a lot of in the news this week.  Thankfully Great Grandfather and Grandmother lived in a very high house but I believe the Brisbane River rose to about 8 meters which is A LOT higher than this flood.  I actually remember visiting my maiden (great) aunts who still lived there in the 70s and being overawed with how very high that house was!

As this historic week  has unfolded I have been working on one of my Golden Childhood posts that has had the working title of "One Momentous Week in '74".  It is about the week of the Australia Day floods which ravaged Queensland that year, but more about my personal dramas and memories of that week.

So now I am thinking that this too will go down as one of those historic episodes, which generally mark a generation.  As Grandad spoke of the '93 flood and 1918, my parents used to compare to the '54 flood which was huge in the Don River area where they lived and here in Rocky also. My hubby and I speak of '91 when with a toddler and a small baby we were marooned, surrounded by flood waters in our little rural home.

We are country folk.  Our lives revolve around the seasons. I don't feel I need to, nor am I able to write to much about the floods here and the catastrophic events on the Downs and South East Queensland.  I know even readers in the US and other overseas places are hearing about all the drama.  It is on our TV and radio channels 24/7.  We feel a little numb.

We have the refugees back after a week at the Evacuation Centre.  I am glad.  Even though it is crowded and hectic, it is good to have them all here close.  Sickness had broken out over there anyway and some "disturbances" which are bound to happen when large groups of random people are thrown in together. This is a special opportunity to support family and build bridges in our community.  I battle for my turn at the computer anyway, but doubly so with so many in house!  If you don't hear from me.....don't panic!

I have been touched and comforted and greatly uplifted by the people of God at this time.  So many blogs that I read which have posted about the floods have had beautiful, faith filled comments.  How blessed we are to know that the Lord reigns, that he does all things well and that he works all things together for the good of his people.

My thoughts and prayers are with all those in flood affected areas both here in Queensland and further afield.  Thinking of you Jeanne, you have been through it all so recently and now a double whammy. 

The photograph above is taken in Wood St, Rockhampton.  On the left where the trees are is the park where we play often with the grandchildren.  My daughter home is one street to the right but the flood water was 2 metres high at the peak :-(  They hope to get in next week to begin the clean up.

Monday, January 10, 2011

It's been a while...

It really has been a while since I posted and the last time a clip.  So much has happened and yet so little, if you know what I mean!  I feel as though I have been terribly busy but not achieving very much at all!  Like treading water, I suppose?

Our river reached a peak of 9.2m last Wednesday and has stayed at 9.1m ever since.  This is major flood level and the submerged houses remain that way :-(  It will be weeks before the water recedes and weeks more in the clean up. The death, muck and stench left by flood water is sickening.  So much to be faced.  Yet people are pulling together and putting their shoulder to wheel in the places where it has dropped enough to begin the work.  Our challenge will be to keep up the momentum and to encourage those who, in several weeks time, will be losing heart.

The most devastating part this week is watching the flooding heading to the south.  Torrents of water sweeping through towns and cities, destroying and causing havoc everywhere it goes.  Flash flooding has so taken folk unawares that cars have been swept from the road and sadly, lives have been lost.

I am reminded that God is completely sovereign.  God is in control.  Even the wind and the waves obey him.   How great is our God!  If nothing else, we can pray that the recent devastation will cause people to turn to the Lord, to be in awe of his marvellous power.  He is in charge of climate, change or no.

I wish I could say I am organized to start back to school and well rested.  Alas, organized is the last way I would describe myself or my household at present!  I am so thankful we were able to take the trip to Victoria at the beginning of December, before any thought of the events of the last couple of weeks.  Our planned week in Brisbane at the end of the holidays is cancelled since our fair city is cut off by all routes to the south.  The positive side of this being I will have that week to really GET ORGANIZED!! (Sarcastic grin)

Friday, December 31, 2010

Of Marriage, Milestones and Many Waters!....

The last week of every year is very special and usually very busy in our house.  This year was no different except we have had the rain and flooding to contend with :-)   This has been the biggest rain event in these parts for many years.  It is very widespread and the Fitzroy River is the catchment river for all the surrounding water ways...all of which are experiencing record flood levels!  So we sit here in Rockhampton, waiting, watching, wondering!

Previous record 1918
The Old Fitzroy River Bridge
There are predictions as to how high the river will rise but realistically no one knows for sure as the levels coming in from the north and west are higher than ever previously recorded.  Needless to say the Big Wet of 2010/11 will go down in history as one of the biggest.

My older daughter and her family live in the flood inundated area of town and have evacuated to us for the duration.  It looks as though their place (a high set house) will get water through the upper living area. We have a house full but we are enjoying it and will make the most of the precious family time despite the stress of the situation and the knowledge that when it recedes the big clean up will begin.

This is what the Depot Hill area looked like over the last couple of days.
If the river rises to expected heights this area will be under 2m plus of water.
This is where my daughter lives!
My second daughter and her family spent the long weekend in the south and are now (happily) stranded there until the roads reopen.  Their home is thankfully high and dry.

The town is very low on milk, bread, fruit and vegies etc.  We are fairly well stocked but with nine in the house plus their dogs we will need to be!!

oo00oo

For better, for worse,
For richer, for poorer,
In sickness and in health,
Until God shall separate us by death.

On Tuesday we celebrated our 25th Wedding Anniversary. Yes, 25 years!
 Although we did not take the above vows in our marriage service, I think it sums up well the commitment that two believers make when they stand before God, and the congregation of his people to promise and covenant themselves to one another.
My own children and my little grandchildren make every hurdle and difficulty through out the years seem trivial and very worthwhile.


Psalm 127

1Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it:
 except the LORD keep the city,  the watchman waketh but in vain.
2It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late,
 to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.
3Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD:
 and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
4As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
5Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not
be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.

oo00oo


Yesterday, Thursday was my birthday!  How quickly these seem to roll around these days. We had to postpone our usual lunch with my  little group of birthday celebrators . We regularly take the birthday girl out for a meal when each one rolls around.   When the flood dramas are past we will go out and have a nice meal together.  As mentioned, I had plenty of my family here to celebrate the day and some visiting friends from Canberra came for lunch.  This meal was cut short too with their decision to fly home before the airport is closed! Earlier, I had enjoyed a coffee and a chat with JJ and tomorrow will be lunch as usual with Dad and Mum .
I love that I get lots of phone calls and messages and I feel very spoiled in general. I am so grateful to the Lord for preserving my life thus far and giving me so many wonderful family members and friends to share it with.

Tomorrow will be the beginning of 2011.  We are having a barbecue with friends but it is most unlikely that I will actually see it in . I am sure my boys will take the opportunity to stay up late and have some goodies!

May God bless each of you in the coming year xo

And a NEWS FLASH!
The missing fuel cap was found today by my daughter, just going about her business down the back! Thank you Lord!

Monday, December 27, 2010

My Golden Childhood XVI

         The Other Relies and the Boxing Day Bash

If you are relatively new to reading my blog, you will notice from the title that there are a whole series of posts, mostly from 2009, entitled My Golden Childhood.  The link includes all fifteen posts in that series and a few other childhood related posts.  I hope you will read some of them as they are my favourite posts since I have been blogging.  After a long break I am attempting to finish the topics I have in draft.

My childhood home was situated in very close proximity to my Grandparents, my father's parents, and his two brothers who had remained on the land.  This meant we had an abundance of aunties and cousins close by and many visiting relatives on that side of the family.



Golden Wedding Anniversary   1966

My Mum came from the Darling Downs and her three sisters had all eventually ended up living in towns but her two brothers both took up grazing properties in Central Queensland .  This meant that we had a large number of cousins from Mum's side fairly close by as well! (Mum's parents had a total of thirty six grandchildren in fact! Most are pictured above.)

Mum's family has an interesting history of "raising orphan children", in that both her grandparents and great grandparents, through various Providences, had raised some of their own grandchildren when they had lost their parents at a young age.  In this spirit, Mum often saw to it that city cousins and more distant relatives who were having some hassles could come to the farm for school holidays if they wanted to. Her brother was the same and one of the great memories I have of holidays at their place was that there were always heaps of kids, lots of noise, plenty of work and plenty of fun.  My greatest childhood friend, later my bridesmaid, was a cousin from this family.  She was a fiery red haired lefty and I loved her dearly! What times we had!

During the year the families would exchange visits once or twice.  This was usually taking the hour and half drive after mass on a Sunday,.  Each family had eight children and one car in those days! We would all pile in for such trips with no thought of seat belts.  Thankfully, Dad was a very cautious driver!  These were much anticipated meetings and we (the girls and I) would try to wrangle it so they would fall at the start of one of the holidays (May and August in those days) so that we could stay over for a while at each others places.   My beloved cuz and I were the same age but she had four brothers directly above her.  This made our lives a misery! or so we pretended.  In reality I loved those boys but they teased and tormented us mercilessly!



Some of The Lads             &                   A Fiery Red Head!

My uncle had been in the Light Horse pre WW2 and transferred to regular army during the war.  He had a crisp military carriage, always had his boots shined to a high polish, walked like a man who has been in the saddle all his life and directed the household like a Sar. Major! (In fact he was a Lieutenant).  From the girl's room we would hear him at daylight.  "Rise and shine, boys. Time to get up. Cows to be milked. wood to be chopped and dogs to be fed."  Cuz sometimes confided she was pleased she was born a girl! However, Uncle was a very tender and affectionate man. who made time for us kids and was devoted to his wife and family.   (He is 89 years old now and suffering since a stroke.  He did not recognise me last time I saw him :-(

Aunty had been bred in the city, but she was the most capable woman, along side my Mum and Grandma, I have ever known!  Nothing fazed her!  Along with raising a large family she cared for her own mother until her death, catered for the numerous strays and relatives who lived with or visited them from time to time, and ironed everything in sight! I once asked her why she ironed all the men's work clothes?  She said they fitted into the cupboards better that way!  Her cooking was renowned and her hospitality a legend.  Aunty died a couple of years ago and one thing I noted at her funeral was the number of cousins from both sides and kids of these cousins, myself and my girls included, who travelled long distances to pay tribute to this very special, precious woman.

Each year my Mum hosted the Boxing Day Bash.  The families, all being fairly large, would  hold their own Christmas Day get-togethers.  Then Mum and Dad would have all the relatives at our place on Boxing Day.
This was often the high light of our year, especially if we had not seen some of the clan much that year.  All of the Grandparents, Uncles, Aunts and cousin from "Over the Road" would come at some stage of the day and the further afield relatives would come all day.  Far away relies would even make their plans to coincide with sharing Boxing Day at "Glen Erin" .  Apart from lots of food and good company we played cricket, endless games of cards, swam if there was enough water in the near by river and the men would always do the obligatory farm tour.


When my parents retired a few of the relatives tried to keep up the Boxing Day Bash but it never really took off at another venue.  Now my own family meet some time around Boxing Day and New Year .  We have a large crew of our own when we all get together but we still include any other local relatives who would like to drop in.  This year, Lord willing, we will not congregate until March when dear Mum and Dad celebrate their 60th Wedding Anniversary.

The photograph at the top of this post was taken at the 50th Wedding Anniversary of my maternal grandparents. I am 3.5 years old! Anyone want to take a guess which little girl is me?  The fiery red head is also there and a little easier to indentify! This grandmother died the following year from lung cancer.

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

SAID HANRAHAN

 by John O'Brien

"We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan in accents most forlorn,
Outside the church, ere Mass began one frosty Sunday morn.
The congregation stood about coat-collars to the ears,
And talked of stock, and crops, and drought as it had done for years.
"It's looking crook," said Daniel Croke; "Bedad, it's cruke, me lad,
For never since the banks went broke has seasons been so bad."

"It's dry, all right," said young O'Neil, with which astute remark
He squatted down upon his heel and chewed a piece of bark.
And so around the chorus ran, "It's keepin' dry, no doubt."
"We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan, "Before the year is out."
"The crops are done; ye'll have your work to save one bag of grain;
From here way out to Back-o'-Bourke they're singin' out for rain.

"They're singin' out for rain," he said, "And all the tanks are dry."
The congregation scratched its head, and gazed around the sky.
"There won't be grass, in any case, enough to feed an ass;
There's not a blade on Casey's place as I came down to Mass."
"If rain don't come this month," said Dan, and cleared his throat to speak -
"We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan, "If rain don't come this week."

A heavy silence seemed to steal on all at this remark;
And each man squatted on his heel, and chewed a piece of bark.
"We want an inch of rain, we do, "O'Neil observed at last;
But Croke "maintained" we wanted two, to put the danger past.
"If we don't get three inches, man, or four to break this drought,
We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan, "Before the year is out."

In God's good time down came the rain; and all the afternoon
On iron roof and window-pane it drummed a homely tune.
And through the night it pattered still, and lightsome, gladsome elves
On dripping spout and window-sill kept talking to themselves.
It pelted, pelted all day long, a-singing at its work,
Till every heart took up the song way out to Back-o'-Bourke.

And every creek a banker ran, and dams filled overtop;
"We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan, "If this rain doesn't stop."
And stop it did, in God's good time; and spring came in to fold
A mantle o'er the hills sublime of green and pink and gold.
And days went by on dancing feet, with harvest-hopes immense,
And laughing eyes beheld the wheat nid-nodding o'er the fence.

And, oh, the smiles on every face, as happy lad and lass
Through grass knee-deep on Casey's place went riding down to Mass.
While round the church in clothes genteel discoursed the men of mark,
And each man squatted on his heel, and chewed his piece of bark.
"There'll be bush-fires for sure, me man, there will, without a doubt;
We'll all be rooned," said Hanrahan, "Before the year is out."

ooOOoo

John O'Brien was the nom de plume of Patrick Joseph Hartigan (1878-1952), born in Yass, New South Wales. He was a Roman Catholic priest in the Goulburn diocese and later parish priest at Narrandera -- also rural towns in New South Wales.

'Said Hanrahan' paints a wonderful portrait of Australian-Irish bush culture, together with its church, the land, the climate and the seasons which constitute its core. Hanrahan (a quintessentially Irish name) expresses unconquerable Irish pessimism about the prospects down on the farm. Hanrahan has a point however: the lush growth from spring rain can indeed dry out into fuel which poses a serious fire risk in summer.

'Said Hanrahan', I think, is readily accessible to non-Australians but here are a couple of notes: 'rooned' is Australian-Irish pronunciation of 'ruined'; 'never since the banks went broke' refers to the turbulent 1890s which were bad drought years and also when, in the absence of a central bank, nearly all the land banks and building societies, and 12 of the 22 trading banks went broke, following the collapse of an intense property boom. 'Back-o'-Bourke' is an Australian colloquialism for being just about anywhere in the vast and sparsely populated heartland of bush Australia; 'every creek a banker ran' means that the rivers overflowed.

'Said Hanrahan' was published in Around the Boree Log and Other Verses (1921)

William Grey.

I love most of the poety of  John O'Brien!  I posted "Around the Boree Log"  here.  Being brought up in any Irish Roman Catholic family, though I no longer hold the doctrines of that denomination, his poetry brings back many childhood memories for me. 
I thought to post "Said Hanrahan" because I was thinking about the many long years of drought we have been through and now it is just raining, raining, raining, day after day, week after week and we find ourselves wishing that "this 'ere rain would stop" even after praying for rain for so long! Hope you enjoy!



Monday, December 20, 2010

Thoughts to take into the New Year



The Duty Man Owes to God

Thomas Boston:

"Let us consider the duty which man owes unto God.  this is obedience.  We are in a state of subjection to God.  He is our superior, and His will we are to obey in all things.  He is our King, and we must obey Him as His subjects, by complying with all His statutes and ordinances.  He is our Father, and we must show Him all respect, reverence, and affection, as His dutiful children.  He is our Lord and Master, and we must yield Him the most cheerful and unlimited service, as is our reasonable duty.  He is our supreme Lawgiver, and we must receive the law at His mouth, every law and precept, every ordinance that is stamped with His authority, whatever is subscribed with a "Thus saith the Lord, " readily obeying it."




It is difficult to fathom that the year can have passed so quickly.
It is convicting to think about just how much time has been frittered away on the frivilous things of this world.  Let us purpose to walk, no run! after the Lord in renewed obedience  in the year ahead.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

In which I learn a lesson

The hard way!

After many years of mothering and supervising children, one might assume that I know all the tricks and pitfalls to watch out for.  My little grandsons are every bit as switched on and mischievous as any of my children were.  My daughters are on the ball, but I am obviously slowing down and losing some of my smarts when it comes to out witting children!

So we are all sitting in the back yard, attempting to escape the very draining humidity.  We have cold water and  nibblies for the kids.  Mumma has her feet up and is fanning her very red, hot face, sighing periodically and generally feeling drowsy in this blistering heat. We while away a few hours until we feel sure the children have had enough and then pack for the evening.  One of my daughters is in the flood affected part of town so her children  really appreciated being able to run about freely.  All in all a very busy, noisy day but lots of fun.

Fast forward to next morning....
Dad goes down to work on the excavator which is parked in our back yard........
Well, yes the kids did have a little drive of it.  Why do you ask?
Can you believe it?  One of the two year olds has managed to unscrew the fuel cap! So the boys and I, and Dad muttering under his breathe about his  irresponsible wife, the cost of a new fuel cap, how naughty children are and the general difficulty in finding good help these days, went on a search and destroy of our back yard. It is small but has a great deal of  "equipment" in it.  Many wonderful hidey holes for little hands to squirrel something away.  Although we have no garden to speak of we do have several patches of thick ferns - again excellent to just drop something in if you never want it to be seen again!

Two days have passed and the wretched thing has not turned up.  You may think it is much ado about nothing but the excavator belongs to a friend and parts for Cat machinery, even little insignificant ones, are not cheap.  Sigh......

Rule #1.  Never, never take your eyes off a two year old!

It looks like this if you happen to see one around!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

But are they Socialized??

Hahahahahahahaha!

Somewhat exaggerated but rather funny conversation!
This is one persistant robot lady!




Thanks to Kelly from Generation Cedar for the link.

Monday, December 13, 2010

No More a Baby!

Life has been too busy to deflate from the high of our holiday away. 
Saturday was my youngest grandson's first birthday!
Can it really be a year since he was born?
We celebrated the occasion with an afternoon in the park, all the while watching the ominous dark clouds, the children's faces bright red with the intense heat and humidity.
Alas, we are back to true CQ Summer weather.
The Fitzroy River is flooding moderately and expected to peak tomorrow.



HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!


Still the baby of my family!
GS3 is wearing his little Melbourne Aquarium tee shirt.


Cousin and brother are big two year olds and really enjoyed the cake
(despite the heat :-)

My plan is to blog little but read as often as possible over the break.
My dear ol' Dad has had a couple of weeks in hospital having become blind.  He is returning home tomorrow so this will be a difficult adjustment for my parents. I hope to spend as much time as possible with them.
Have a great week everyone.