Hubby and I and the boys are home from a great weekend in Brisbane.
We travelled by train and managed to catch up with lots of people even though it was only a four day trip.
On Brisbane trips we always stay with hubby's mother. (You may remember she was eighty in October). We got to relax and chat with her as well as a nice little shopping trip and coffee for us ladies.
No kids around, so the boys spent the first two days very quietly.
Here they are on the train but the ear phones got a good work out during the trip down and back and when adult conversation just droned on for too long!
The reason for our visit was my Father-in-laws eightieth birthday.
Hubby is obscured but this is him with his sister and half brother and spouses.
Despite ongoing illness, Papa was very enthusiastic at his party!
Coming home from the celebrations, I couldn't help but ponder
about the contrast between
my own family and background and my in laws.
Hubby's dad migrated from Italy in the early fifties. His mother has a wonderfully chequered background with French and Scottish forebears.
The story of how his French great-grandparents ended up in
Australia is fascinating and I
hope one day someone writes a book about that!
They are part of the history of early Cairns remembered by such place names as
Frenchman's Creek and Josephine Falls.
My husband's parents separated way back when he was about five.
After that he didn't see his dad again for twenty five years!
He was raised by his mother (and grandmother).
His father remarried a much younger Philipina and had a son.
Can you imagine the scene in the restaurant where the party was held?
The excited high pitched voices of the Philipino ladies and the rich rolling
depth of all those Italians. What a babble!
Many of their friends we had meet on other visits.
Michello, Giorgio, Mario, Giovanni.
Aurora, Rosalinda and Maria!
After the luncheon we spent the rest of the afternoon and evening
just with the family members.
As we sat to share dinner we noted that there were we few "Aussies" with an Italian,
a Philipina, a Korean and a German! All of whom have arrived here as adults.
Before eating, hubby's half brother commented "Bon Appetit" and we all roared laughing.
All those languages to choose from yet he used French!
"Bon Appetito"
The eighty year old corrected in his beautiful throaty accent.
It is almost 25 years since we first re-established contact with my husband's father.
This weekend we realised how blessed we have been to have that
area of life "resolved".
Looking on, I believe my father in law must be very pleased to have been
re-united with the children he left so many years ago.