Must be prepared to work long hours without pay and sometimes without appreciation. Must be able to survive on very little sleep, work with a limited budget, forgo adult conversation for long periods of time and leap tall buildings if required!. Experience in nursing, teaching, hospitality, accounting, first aide, taxi driving, refereeing, cooking, industrial cleaning, laundering, counselling, coaching, food and nutrition, cheer leading, animal husbandry or any other skills useful to manage and control a busy household would be an advantage. However, women without previous training/ experience may apply if they are willing to develop skills in the above mentioned areas. Guaranteed to produce long term job satisfaction and the undying love and gratitude of her husband and children.
All jokes aside, who can find that virtuous woman?
After asking my readers about their choices in subjects during high school, whether you went to Uni and the usefulness of these courses in your subsequent lives, I asked also about the academic qualifications, if any. necessary to teach your children at home. I was not surprised that most of my commenters did not think that even a Year 12 pass was required.
We leave school with a little knowledge and not a lot of wisdom.....
Our academic subjects whether learned at home or at school will in the long run often contribute very little to our lives. Some will study specific subjects to reach a particular goal eg. many of my school friends took Biology and Chemistry primarily to enter nursing. Many will try various courses and have various jobs through out life. The toughest job for us women is motherhood.
As home schooling mothers we are sometimes told, "Oh, you must be sooooo patient!" No, but we are having on the job training for that ! It is neither academic prowess nor a sweet nature (though that may be very beneficial) but commitment to doing this job which is unrelenting. As Christians we do not rely on our own strength so it is our God who strengthens us. It is he who convicts us that this is the right direction for our families. Whether your husband is saved or not I have noted that it is very important that this is something he wants for your family. There can be only conflict and division if a mother forces it upon them.
God requires that we train up our children in the way that they should go. (Proverbs 22:6) and he will certainly enable us and strengthen us when the going gets tough. We are to teach them as we stand up and as we lie down. Whether our children attend a public school, private or home school we are to read and teach God's Word but most importantly show by example what it means to live as believers in the Lord Jesus Christ. Do we ask forgiveness and humble ourselves before God and our family? Do we meet and fellowship with the people of God? Do we extend hospitality to brethren and the needy? These are just some of the character lessons that children observe from a young age.
The Word of God is our sure foundation. Learning to read, write and cipher are the basic skills we are to teach to our children. They are the corner stones. I do not believe it is necessary, nor in fact possible, for us to impart every skerrick of knowledge to our children, but we give them the tools and resources and set them on a voyage of discovery.
For me the goal is to raise God fearing children who are useful and decent members of society.
Proverbs 1:7
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge;
but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
P.S. I am the girl in the second row from front, second on the left!
in the class photo posted on Tuesday.
in the class photo posted on Tuesday.


Homeschooling moms and wives are awesome. Their children will rise up and call them blessed one day.
ReplyDeleteHi Ruby,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this post - it was an ecouragment to me, thankyou.
I also wanted to add that although higher level academic or specific home economic training is not necessary to be a successfull wife, mother and homeschooler, that is not because these are jobs that require little to no brainpower. Clarity of thought and a great wisdom and knowledge is required, plus character and ability to manage your home and life - but these are not things that are part of higher education per se. These traits and abilities are generally developed beyond the scope of education (although I do believe that a Liberal Arts education does assist!) I have met some very clever, highly educated women, that are really quite silly; and met others who have not had a higher education, but are sensible and hard working and thus more successful in their homemaking, homeschooling endeavours because of it.
You worded that really well. I think a lot of "succesful" wives and mothers have either had wonderful examples or great commitment.
DeleteYes indeed! Motherhood is the toughest job on earth and i really take my hat off to mothers with many kids! I struggle with one lol! Keeps me dependent on God that's for sure:)
ReplyDeleteYes, motherhood is tough, especially when you have a 19 year old!!!
ReplyDeleteBut I have to thank my mother (who is now almost 80) for being a wonderful teacher and teaching me how to be a mother and how to run a household and to create a home. I have been blessed to have such a mother, as it appears many ladies weren't as fortunate as me. The most important skill that I was taught from both my parents was organisational skills - how to be organised. If you can organise your life, everything falls into place :)
Hope you are having a lovely weekend.